Sexual Exploration, Fantasy & Kink Therapy
Many of us walk around with a 'secret self'—a part of our sexuality we are afraid to share, even with our partners. You might feel broken because standard advice doesn't work for you. You are not alone.
Availability
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Session Length
50 Minutes
Investment
$200 Per Session
In-Person Locations
Frisco, Texas
Virtual Locations
Florida
Texas
Curious? Learn More Below:
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Does Sex Feel Stagnant, Confusing, or Shameful?
Many of us walk around with a 'secret self'—a part of our sexuality we are afraid to share, even with our partners. You might feel broken because standard advice doesn't work for you. You are not alone.
- The Boredom: You feel bored with 'vanilla' sex or feel a lack of joy in the bedroom.
- The Silence: You struggle to communicate what you really want out of fear of rejection.
- The Shame: You feel guilt or shame about your specific turn-ons or fantasies.
- The Disconnect: You have low desire for 'standard' sex but high interest in fantasy.
- The Confusion: You don't know what you like, or you don't know why you like it.
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Rewrite Your Sexual Scripts.
At Ignite Therapy, we don't just talk about sex; we deconstruct the scripts you were taught and help you write new ones that actually fit who you are.
The process:
- Identify the Scripts: We uncover the subconscious rules governing your desire—what you think you should want vs. what you actually want.
- Erotic vs. Non-Erotic: Learn how playfulness outside the bedroom translates into erotic energy inside it.
- The Science of Desire: Understand the difference between spontaneous libido and responsive desire.
- Meaning Making: We explore your kinks and fantasies not as "symptoms," but as meaningful maps to your psychological needs (power, surrender, safety, play).
- Healing & Empowerment: Learn how consensual power exchange or fantasy enactment can actually heal past wounds.
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From "Hidden" to "Empowered."
When you stop suppressing your nature, your energy returns. This work isn't just about better sex; it's about a more authentic life.
- Clarity: A deep understanding of your unique erotic blueprint.
- Voice: The ability to communicate needs without stuttering or apologizing.
- Freedom: A massive decrease in shame and anxiety.
- Play: Increased ability to be playful and joyful in daily life.
- Libido: Unlocking desire by accessing the fantasies that actually fuel it.
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Getting Started & Next Steps
Ready to explore your authentic self? Schedule a free 15-minute consultation to ask questions and see if we are a good fit for in-person sessions in Frisco or virtual therapy across Texas and Florida.
FAQs
Are taboo fantasies normal?
All fantasies are incredibly common! I will help you dismantle ideas about what is normal or taboo. Fantasies are windows to understanding desire. Having a fantasy does not mean you want to act on it in reality, nor does it mean there is something 'wrong' with you. We help you understand the psychological meaning behind the fantasy without judgment.
Do I need a partner to do this work?
No. This work is for any individual who desires to explore their own preferences. Understanding your own sexual map is the first step before you can share it with anyone else.
Will you try to change what like?
Absolutely not. We are a Kink-Aware and Affirming practice. We do not try to change your interests. We help you integrate them into your life in a way that is healthy, consensual, and fulfilling.
We are interested in BDSM but scared of doing it wrong. Can you help?
Yes. We distinguish between 'abuse' and 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' (SSC) kink. We can help you negotiate boundaries, safe words, and aftercare so that your exploration remains safe and connecting.
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